It can be very frustrating wondering why you are constantly attracting the wrong men into your life. The ones that are not ready for commitment, the ones that just want to have fun, the ones that are stuck in their comfort zone and too scared to let go, the ones that don’t actually know what they want. Does it ring a bell?
There is absolutely nothing wrong with these men, they may be decent, honest, kind and the perfect person, but just not for you! They are the right person – for someone else. So what can you do to attract the right guy into your life and not waste your time with the others? 1. Keep A Positive Attitude No ‘Right Guy’ is going to be attracted to you if you view life as glass half empty all of the time. Take responsibility for your life and keep a positive outlook on things. Don’t become a victim of your last relationship. Learn from it and move on with confidence knowing that the right person will come into your life. 2. Be Yourself Be Intelligent, be confident, be fun loving and be YOU! Don’t lower who you are or your standards to become the woman you think a man will want. Just be you… If a man doesn’t like that then he’s not the one for you! 3. Dress To Impress You don’t have to wear the most expensive clothes to stand out and attract men, but it helps to know what looks good on you. When you feel good about yourself on the outside you will feel good about yourself on the inside. So wear clothes that give you confidence. Be bold and wear colour and be part of the crowd rather than hiding away from it. Clothes are not bought to be stored in the wardrobe. If you have invested in a wonderful wardrobe, than wear the clothes. Get your money’s worth from them by looking and feeling good. 4. Stay In Shape This isn’t about becoming a size zero – or the next top model! Unless that’s what you want. Keeping in shape has so many positive factors and attracting a man is just one of them. By exercising you are helping your own inner confidence and health. When you feel good about yourself it shows in your energy – and that’s what attracts a man towards you. Staying in shape will make your clothes look and feel better on you. So be in the best possible shape for you. 5. Keep It Natural Eau Natural has something to say about it. Keeping it natural isn’t about not wearing make-up – it’s about doing the make-up so that it looks like you aren’t wearing any. Go with colors that are near to your natural skin tones and then dress it up for an evening out or a special occasion. You will find that the kind of man you want to attract will be the one that is paying attention. 6. Wear A Scent To Arouse The Senses Make sure you wear a perfume everyday (rotate a different one each day if you have multiple). Wearing a perfume will make you feel good as well as arouse the senses of any potential man you want to be with. It’s a great excuse for him to come closer to you. 7. Dare To Wear Red The colour red stands for so many things on a conscious and subconscious level. From passion to confidence it’s a colour that will get you noticed and stand out from the rest. If you aren’t daring enough with a whole outfit, then adding red into accessories or just the lipstick will be enough to get you noticed.
8. Be Unavailable The importance of attracting the Right Man into your life is about not giving up on your life while you are waiting for him to come in. Be busy, concentrate on building the foundations of your own life – career, business, friends, family, your interests, travel. The right men will find you far more attractive when they sense that you have your own life and like doing your own thing. They will not be looking for a woman who is dependent on them and their time. 9. Make Your Own Money In this day and age – gone are the days when women had to be dependent on men for their money. Attracting the Right Man is about ensuring that you are doing your own thing and are financially independent. You don’t need to be making millions but enough so that you are not financially dependent on him. 10. Be Happy, Be Grateful And Smile Smiling creates positivity and self-assurance in your energy which makes you more attractive to men. It makes men feel that you are open and approachable for them to talk to you. So keep smiling. 11. Be Feminine You can be strong, independent and successful and still be feminine. Men do not want to date a woman who wants to be the man in the relationship. Allow them to play that role and you be just you.