Don’t compromise yourself. You are all you’ve got. There is no yesterday, no tomorrow, it’s all the same day – Janis Joplin

My story isn't complicated or hard to understand... but it was a journey that I chose to take to become the person that I already was.

I had a typical Asian upbringing where, as a woman you were expected to get married after you graduated and lead the same life as everyone else in society. You were expected to fit into what was the 'norm' and what people understood to be right.

The difference with me - I was born ahead of my time. I was born too independent and too strong for what my society would accept or was ready for. I wanted all those things but I wanted them on my terms - with the person and life that I chose.

I spent all of my 20's battling with my family, culture and society for the right to lead my own life and make my own choices. My family could not understand what was wrong with me and why I was resisting the life that they wanted for me. It was a decade full of a lot of unhappiness and loneliness – as no one in my family saw me or understood me. Each year just blended into the one before – nothing seemed to change but life just got more and more pressured and unhappy.

I can see now that the universe was telling me to break free, be my own person

but how do you become that person when you don’t have the skills, tools and knowledge to believe in yourself and to know that you will be ok.

Life is a matter of choices, and every choice you make makes you - John C. Maxwell

I had started studying to be a life coach and that gave me the strength to walk away from a life that was no longer working for me. I could have either sank or swam - the choice was obvious I was going to swim (or learn how to if I had to). I wasn't prepared to give up on myself or my life.

On the 10th Sept 2001, I made that change. I took the scary step and pushed myself out of my comfort zone and outside the cultural guilt of trying to make everyone else happy – I started my new life in a new city with “yet to meet” new people.

I had fought hard to get to where I was so I worked through my pain and loneliness - gaining strength, confidence, defining boundaries and gaining a greater sense of who I truly was.

I HAD TO LEARN TO LIVE ON MY OWN - to do things for myself, like

- manage my finances
- buy a house, then sell the house and but another
- buy a car
- meet new people - make friends
- understand how to pay bills - and what ones!
- learn how to start a business - and that took time

I could go on forever. You would think that everyone has or knows these skills - but the answer is NO.

When you have spent a lifetime counting on others to take care of things, or not making decisions because someone else always did - then you wouldn't know what you have to do.

I didn't just leave my support network and everything that was familiar - I pushed myself so far out of my comfort zone that I had to teach myself all the skills to survive and make my new life.

It's important to create your own happiness and become your own TRUE SELF so that you can create the life you dream of.

So What Does It Mean For You?

- It means that I will help and support you to build your own inner/outer foundation first.
- I will help you to see and love yourself just the way you are.

For over a decade I have been helping women to create the life they dream of.

I know and understand the barriers that women face both culturally and in society, when wanting to make their own choices and create the life they want.

Life has given me many challenges and heartbreaks and each one has helped me to better understand who I am and create stronger foundations for all areas of my life - wealth, relationships, health, family & friends, socially and in my business.

"Nobody needs to live a life in a box that 'Fits all'. Living your true life and being courageous enough to find the love that you want, means opening yourself up to your potential and trusting your own intuition and voice!" - Ambila Nath

My intention is to help you to

"Create the Life & Love You Deserve"

by giving you lots of fun, exciting, practical tools, knowledge and skills to start making the changes today!

You are no longer going to just need to settle for just anything in life!

I'm here to support and empower you to believe in yourself. I care about you and your dreams and I'm committed to helping you to get and live the life that you want - and deserve!

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People know me to be a straight talker and I tell it how it is - with love and compassion. Everything I say or do comes from a place of empathy and honesty.

Thank you for connecting with me and allowing me to support you in your journey!